All attitudes that others have with themselves and with respect to us and our own depend on certain factors of learning, certain standards which we respect and certain personal experiences. Suppose that you are in a meeting with some friends and one of them just tell a joke and everyone laugh out loud. To herself, thinking that on the first occasion that has, you also tell it because you parce a very joke. So does the next week in the course of a dinner, everyone laugh miserably, which makes you feel great because you have had success in his feat. Feel that that joke will be one of the favorites that you recorded on your mental repertoire, and repeats each time that of ele presents the occasion. And you know why?, well because people tend to repeat everything that makes us feel successful.
Instead, if the first account the joke, not provoke more than grins on the faces of listeners, more insurance is that joke not again to count, so more, perhaps to forget it. When the things we do or say failing are normally accustomed to not repeat them. Now suppose you that is circulating a road behind the wheel of his brand-new Mercedes Benz new. He knows that he has to respect the safety distance with the car which has front. And he keeps it.
Are you behaving appropriately, respecting rules and laws. However, it notes that compliance with the standards of the movement, allows other drivers they conducted him, placing themselves between yours and the vehicle ahead. And one another (Luckily the least) whips you with powerful gusts that accelerate. While his behaviour is correct, according to the rules of courtesy, to yield the right of way, is you experiencing negative sensations, product of the behavior that you cause in some drivers. Which advance you cause you go leaving behind and that behind you are approaching him recklessly, with its flashes make you feel uncomfortable.